Raising Richmond: 12 gifts any kid will love

Kids (all kids) like things that are awesome, and they need things that help them use their brains. Here are 12 gift ideas that are sure to leave pretty much any kid stoked. (But first, I rant a little.)

There’s been a lot of talk on the Internet as of late regarding “toys for girls” versus “toys for boys,” largely in response to the social media juggernaut that is GoldieBlox.1 This conversation actually comes up quite often–last week it was GoldieBlox, last year it was LEGO Friends–and rightfully so because the whole concept of marketing just to boys or just to girls can be frustrating as hell for parents.2

I suppose this is the part where I’m supposed to rattle off the list of toys currently in our five-year-old son’s possession that equally represent what are considered masculine or feminine interests. But I’m not going to because doing so, in my opinion, just plays into all of the BS my husband and I are trying to debunk for our son–not just through his stuff but more so in how we treat others and talk to him about the world in general.

In our house, toys are just toys. They are not selected (and aren’t not selected) based on their target audience; they’re also not selected to prove a point of some sort. Our son likes what he likes. We buy and/or acquire toys for him based on those likes, as well as his developmental needs. That’s it. And while I try not to get too preachy or prescriptive in this space, that should be it. For every kid.

Kids like things that are awesome, and they need things that help them use their brains. So with that in mind, allow me to suggest 12 toys/books/gifts/etc. that are sure to leave pretty much any kid stoked–boy, girl, tall, short, purple, green, what have you.

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1. LEGO Friends

Because as Sam Davies pointed out a while back, LEGO Friends is just LEGO. Plus the Heartlake City Pool, City Park Cafe, and Dolphin Cruiser sets all look like they’d be super fun to put together (just to name a few).

2. Dueling Stomp Rockets

Healthy competition and a potential physics lesson on projectile motion. Win-win, folks!

3. Rainbow Loom

We spent our pre-teen years fumbling with strands of embroidery thread anchored down to a clipboard. Kids these days3 are cranking out crazy designs using tools and patterns that require them to plan ahead and follow directions. I love tricking them into developing organizational skills!

4. Lincoln Logs

Find me a youngster that doesn’t enjoy putting together the Shady Pine Homestead and I’ll eat my hat.

5. World Record Paper Airplane Book

What is it with kids and paper airplanes? Oh, right, paper airplanes are fantastic. This book offers 112 ready-to-fold airplanes (complete with colored paper to keep things snazzy), along with facts outlining the basic principles of flight, tips on how to match throwing technique to the right model, and even a flight log for kids to track their progress. That…is adorable.

6. Don’t Let the Pigeon Finish This Activity Book

Repeat after me: Mo Willems does no wrong (he’s that guy pictured above). And lest you think this is just a coloring book, take a gander at this little promotional video to be convinced otherwise.

7. Plush Monster Slippers

Let’s ignore the fact their official product name is “Boys Plush Monster Slippers” (I searched for a girl counterpart to no avail), and instead, think of all of the laughs a couple pairs of these in your house would bring.

8. Crayola Color Wonder Travel Tote

If you’re not familiar with Crayola Color Wonder products, here’s the deal: the Color Wonder markers only write on Color Wonder paper. As in not on your walls, dining room table, car upholstery, child’s skin, etc. Now imagine all of that tucked together in an easy-to-carry tote. Yes, please, and thank you.

9. Classic Marbles

Yep. Just marbles–although this particular set includes 50 glass marbles in a variety of sizes, colors, and finishes. Teach your kids the rules of the game or just pass the bag along and see what they do with them. I promise you, these will be a huge hit.

10. Twist It Up: More than 60 Different Recipes from an Inspiring Young Chef

Time for those kids to get into the kitchen and earn their keep! This book features recipes written by a kid for kids and offers up fun little “twists” (read: ingredients that might actually expand your child’s palate) on go-to kid favorites like pizza, chicken noodle soup, and French toast.

11. Midnight Circus Shadow Puppets

My son is currently obsessed with the concept of shadow puppets but also constantly disappointed in his inability to create anything other than a blobby rabbit with his still-chubby little fingers. I suspect that time spent with these little gems would be nothing but delightful–especially if paired with our last item…

12. LJUSA Flashlight

Awwwww, baby’s first unprounancable IKEA product! But seriously, a hand-crank LED flashlight, guys. Reading in bed after lights out! Flashlight tag with the neighborhood pals! Actually having a flashlight in the house that works because it’s impossible to remember to buy batteries!

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Got gift suggestions of your own? Link it up in the comments!

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Footnotes

  1. If you’re not familiar with GoldieBlox, try going here. I’m still not sure how I feel about the whole concept, but I’m inclined to agree with the thoughts expressed here. I’d love to know your thougts, too. 
  2. Or people, really. 
  3. At least every kid I know. Seriously. Every. single. one. 
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Valerie Catrow

Valerie Catrow is editor of RVAFamily, mother to a mop-topped first grader, and always really excited to go to bed.

Notice: Comments that are not conducive to an interesting and thoughtful conversation may be removed at the editor’s discretion.

  1. Caroline on said:

    I am very intrigued by the pigeon book…do you have it? Will it make sense to kids who haven’t read the pigeon books? (Awful, I know. My children have thrown themselves into gender roles and refuse to read things that aren’t princess/lalaloopsey or superheroes/ninja turtles.) Amazon says age range is 3-8, do you agree? My daughter (age 6) loves workbooks, so I’m sure she’d like it, and I’m always in search of a way to get my son (age 3) interested in coloring or anything that’s not puzzles and action figures!

  2. Kristi on said:

    Thank you for this, Val! I’ve been looking for a few more small items – perfect! (How did I not know about #5!?! My kids LOVE Mo Willems!)

    I have a toy to add: AirHogs Atmosphere (ignore the Amazon prices, it’s $19.99 in stores at Target & Toys R Us – in blue, green, or red). The box says 8+, but it’s a hover ball and my just-turned-7 and just-turned-4 kids love it. It gets them up and running around, they “toss” it back and forth, and let it bonk down on each others’ heads (it’s light, so no injuries yet). The battery wears down after a just a few minutes, but that’s an opportunity to practice patience while it recharges.

  3. Anitra Fenderson on said:

    I have a bit of an agree to disagree feeling on LEGO Friends. I strongly agree that toys are toys and we shouldn’t gender select (and don’t in our house). However, I truly feel like LEGO did the wrong thing by releasing it as a completely distinct line. By doing that, I feel that they encouraged the idea that they are “LEGOs for girls”. If they had done it as an overall expansion – added new colors to the LEGO line, came out with the new build sets with those, and added new mini-fig characters (not barbie-esque looking figures that are a completely different size)… I would’ve been totally on board.

  4. @Anitra, yeah I agree in that LEGO handled it poorly–an overall expansion would’ve been better.

  5. Sam Davies on said:

    That dolphin cruiser looks great.

  6. I am a parent of two girls and no boys, and if you read Sam’s column, you know we do not embrace stereotypical gender roles. But our kids do, especially around preschool age. Around 4, the gender roles become very concrete and color-coding is definitely noticed. I would rather have the companies making awesome toys for all kids color-code some of their toys than not, because then at least the girls who only want “girl toys” will have something less banal than Barbie dolls to choose from. For example, Wild Science kits. Here’s what they have to say on why they have girl kits. http://wildscience.net/wild9_2.asp?num=37&num2=1&st=1&kind=17

    Hopefully one day our kids will grow to see beyond the marketing and find all toys to be potentially fun. But why give them a late start when they go through a practically inevitable pink phase?

    I like to give toys that involve creativity. You have some cool ones on your list. My girls chose a Play Doh activity kit and Melissa & Doug figure painting kit for Toys for Tots this year. I’ve also seen tons of cute stuff on Etsy, including wildly creative painted peg people sets.

  7. Eric Drumheller on said:

    Great list Valerie. Got #6 and #10.

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